Love is never an easy task. You give up a lot of yourself for the other person. You become stupid so you will accept what is happening. You try and make something new just so it won't be boring. You learn to get jealous and find out that you can get mad even at the smallest things. All of this and much more you do just for love, and for the love of the other person you care for.
And so here I am trying to unlearn and learn at the same time. Working on rekindling the spark and getting us both at our feet. Recalling the advices that I gave to friends and now trying it myself. It isn't easy and thankfully, none that I know told me it will be (I easily believe what people tell me sometimes).
Love takes work. I need a lot of things: patience, understanding, wisdom, concern, sweetness, ideas, time, attention, and so much more. I know I have alot of these but then I realized they're not enough. I noticed that I too can be selfish. You have to show that you understand them even if they're wrong sometimes. You have to make sure your partner is not alone especially when you're there. You have to be always supportive. And most of all you need to learn how to change yourself.
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