First, a huge CONGRATULATIONS to my friends who's getting married this year and early next year. Woot!
Now this somehow bothers me or I'm just putting this imaginary pressure on my self to finally get married and settle down with someone. People say I'm too young to get married. What exactly is the right age to be wed? I mean in some cultures if you reach the age of 10, your parents are already planning for your wedding and not your coming of age party. You'd better have more than 5 kids or else, you won't contribute much to the community. Okay well maybe in those cultures, a family is the base of the society and would probably need more to be able to survive in their community. That's not the exact idea I'm thinking but it's not so bad to share.
Anyway, some people know they're meant to be with someone. And some people just get into an accident and be with someone (the baby on the way sitch). But then others aren't sure if they really want to be with the one they're with. It all boils down in the idea of being ready to finally put the period in the single chapter of their lives.
In an old blog, I said I plan to get married between the age of 26-28. Right now I think that plan is being placed at the back burner. A plan is a plan right? It's a long term plan too... and right now I think I'd better not expect too much. I have to take it slow and not rush it but I still should have that dream. The dream is all I have.
I wonder when I will see a ring on my finger? I'm like every girl who wants to have an engagement ring. But I want it so simple, the diamond so small. I want to keep my simplicity that way.
... and like I said, to dream is all I have..
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